The Coconut Tree

Psychological Injuries That Arise From Failure F ailure exists as part of human existence. Failure also makes us feel so weak, helpless, and do not want to do anything. Failure can leave wounds and pain so imprint on us. so that , without us knowing it, there are psychological injuries that arise due to failure itself like damage self-esteem, weaken expectations, reduce self-confidence and motivation . The first is damaging self-esteem. When someone fails, often labeling theirself like, "I'm really stupid", "I really don't deserve success", "what a loser", and other similar negative statements. Such negative labeling actually further hurts our self-esteem. Some consider it, by giving a label in the form of a statement that is able to release emotions from failure. However, the more often we fill ourselves with confusing thoughts, the easier it is to internalize within us. As if we give self-justification that indeed we are a foolish, lo...

The Benefits of Failure Failure is a human process. The process teaches us to be human beings who can accept the reality that happens in our lives , b ecause life does not always go according to what we want . Failure is often considered a scary and sad thing. However, failure also benefit us in many ways, such as become stronger, know our weaknesses, find true friends, and appreciate our success. First, failure does make you fall, but it doesn't make you weak. You have to get up and go back to the ladder of success. If you give up and choose to stop, you will not go anywhere; stay below, exactly where you fell. When you rise, you slowly repair the failure holes and thicken your defenses not to fall into the same hole. You will be more careful when acting and making decisions. You know, in the future, there will still be a lot of potholes, but there is no need to be afraid to face that. From your previous mistakes, you have learned how to avoid failure. Second, you ar...