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DIVORCE IN INDONESIA


DIVORCE IN INDONESIA
by : Siti Nur Qomariyah

What’s wrong with marriage in Indonesia?  There are a lot of couple that has a long time together but they suddenly decide to end their marriage. On the surface, everything seems to be no problem. However, they feel uncomfortable anymore with their marriage. Based on this phenomenon, there are several reasons for why divorce in Indonesia is increasing.
Economic aspects are the main factor causing divorce in Indonesia. Divorce not only happened in poor families but also rich families. The cause of divorce in rich families is because their lifestyle is too excessive. Because a lifestyle that is too luxurious and excessive will be able to cause new problems that result in divorce. In addition, wife's income which is far more than her husband can be starting point of divorce.
Another reason is one of the couple too busy with their jobs. We know that we need money to fulfill our need, but they are too busy until there is no time to sharing and together with family will make miscommunication being wife and husband. May be they will never less of financial but their need not only about financial. They need to communicate each other and solve the problem in family together. Less of communication could causes their marriage not harmony anymore and finally got a divorce.
Most of people prefer to divorce because of domestic violence. They choose to live alone than always be victim of persecution from his life partner. The victim of domestic violence is not only the wives but also can be the husband. Domestic violence is not only interpreted as physical abuse but also rude words. Because of this reason most of people decide to divorce and start living comfortably.
In Indonesia, divorce rates are increasing. If this continues to be left, it will affect the growth of children. The children will lose their parents' figure and affection from them. Most of children who be victim of divorce, their academic score will be decrease, prefer to be alone and many also act far more naughty than before. Of course this will adversely affect the future of the children and successors of the Indonesia.


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